Young fundraiser Milly nominated for BBC award after heartfelt tribute to nan
Pilgrims Hospices is proud to celebrate the kindness and compassion of Milly Rigden, aged 15, from Whitstable, who has been shortlisted as a finalist in the Young Hero category of the BBC Make a Difference Awards 2025 – placing her in the top four of this prestigious category.
Known locally as a pageant princess, Milly was inspired to support Pilgrims after her beloved nan, Carmel, was cared for at the Canterbury hospice. Determined to give back, she created a thoughtful Amazon Wish List filled with comfort items and everyday essentials to help other patients feel at ease during their time in care.
“I wanted to do something to help people like my nan – even small things can make a big difference,” said Milly.
Milly and her sister Lydia, then aged just 8 and 13, initially set themselves a target to raise £1,000 in a year as a way of giving back for the care their nan had received. Their hard work and determination paid off – they smashed their target and raised an incredible £2,626.46.
Milly with her mum, Nadia, and sister, Lydia
Since then, their fundraising mission has grown. The sisters now regularly collect and supply comfort items to the hospice. Many of the items are donated by the pageant community, and others are bought by Milly and Lydia using money raised from small fundraisers and boot fairs.
They put their heart into the items they provide – from soft blankets, toiletries, and puzzle books to cosy socks and practical items like phone chargers and electrical leads.
“It might seem like a small thing,” Milly explained, “but having the ability to charge a phone can mean everything to patients and their families. It helps people stay connected during a really difficult time.”
Milly with the Hug from Home box
One of their most cherished projects is the ‘Hug from Home’ box, which they keep regularly stocked with thoughtful items for patients and families.
“Anyone can come along and select an item that might help them feel a little closer to home,” Milly said.
“Nan always had chilly feet, and we used to bring her cosy socks to keep her warm. We keep the ‘Hug from Home’ box topped up with socks for anyone with chilly toes to enjoy.”
Milly is now an internationally crowned pageant queen, and Lydia has also proudly achieved national pageant recognition. Both sisters use their platforms to support hospice care and encourage others to get involved.
“Mum and I still talk about our nan all the time,” Milly added. “This helps me think of her in a really positive way. She would be so proud of what we do.”
Milly’s interview at Pilgrims Hospice Canterbury with BBC journalist Carole Wordsworth
Milly’s dedication and compassion led to her being nominated for the BBC award by family, friends, and members of the pageant community. She found out about the nomination in a moment she’ll never forget.
“We were literally leaving for the United States – part of my pageant duties – when I found out. Mum, Lydia, and I were rushing to catch our flight, and suddenly we heard the news. It was such a shock, and a lot to take in at that moment, but also incredibly exciting. What a privilege to be recognised for my efforts.”
The Rigden family are well known as regular volunteers at Pilgrims events. Milly and Lydia have taken part in some of Pilgrims’ most loved fundraising activities, including the Thanet 5k Colour Run and Santas on the Run! festive fun run.
“We’d like to say a huge thank you to the Rigden family for all the support they bring to Pilgrims Hospices,” added Kate White, Senior Nurse Manager.
Milly in the Canterbury hospice gardens
Milly also continues to use her pageant platform to raise awareness of hospice care – not only in the UK, but on an international stage.
“When I travel as part of the pageant, I get to spread the message about hospice care and how important it is,” said Milly.
“It’s an honour to shine a light on what Pilgrims does for so many people.”
Her nomination is a powerful reminder of the impact young people can make when they’re motivated by love, compassion, and community spirit.
“Milly’s kindness has really shone through,” said Rachel Edmed, Senior Fundraiser at Pilgrims Hospices. “She’s shown that anyone, at any age, can make a big difference to those facing the most difficult times. We’re so proud of her.”
Milly was recently interviewed by BBC journalist Carole Wordsworth at Pilgrims Hospice Canterbury, where she shared her story and celebrated the incredible contributions of young people in our communities.
The BBC Make a Difference Awards will take place later in 2025, recognising unsung heroes across the UK who go the extra mile to help others. Whatever the outcome, Milly has already made a lasting difference – one heartfelt gesture at a time.
Pilgrims Hospices provides compassionate, specialist care free of charge to more than 3,000 people in east Kent each year who are living with life-limiting conditions. Support is offered in patients’ homes, in the community, and at our three hospice sites in Canterbury, Thanet and Ashford. We also run a 24-hour advice line.
14th July 2025
Handmade jewellery honours much-loved wife and helps raise thousands for Pilgrims Hospices
A touching story of love, loss and generosity unfolded at this year’s 100 Pieces of Art charity auction in Margate, as a local family honoured the memory of a beloved wife and mother by donating handmade jewellery – helping to raise over £9,500 for Pilgrims Hospices.
Mark Boland, whose wife Maureen was cared for by Pilgrims at the Canterbury hospice, attended the event with his daughter Sharon to see two bespoke sets of silver earrings and necklaces auctioned in Maureen’s memory.
The jewellery was designed and created by Mark’s niece, Diana King, a professional jeweller based in Perth, Scotland.
Inspired by the Pilgrims Hospices logo, the pieces were lovingly crafted in sterling silver. They served not only as striking works of art but also as deeply personal tributes to a woman described as “a wonderful wife, mum, nan, sister and aunt.”
“Mum had a huge collection of earrings – she loved them and had a pair for every occasion,” said Sharon. “Creating jewellery in her memory just felt like the perfect way to raise funds for the place that cared for her so kindly in her final days.”
Maureen passed away in November 2024, just a month short of what would have been her 60th wedding anniversary with Mark.
During her final days, she received specialist care at Pilgrims Hospice Canterbury, where the family found both comfort and support.
“We were welcomed with open arms at the hospice,” Sharon said. “The team – from volunteers to nurses and doctors – were amazing. Everyone had a role to play in making Mum’s last week pain-free and peaceful.”
Even though it was during the winter months, Sharon recalled how Maureen loved to look out on the hospice gardens.
“It helped us all to share calm moments together in a horrendous situation. We’re incredibly grateful to Pilgrims.”
The idea for the jewellery came from Sharon’s dad, who noticed the potential for the Pilgrims logo to be reimagined as elegant designs. He shared the concept with his niece Diana, who quickly embraced the project.
“As soon as my Uncle Mark sent me the idea, I wanted to do it,” said Diana King, who runs Diana King Jewellery Workshop.
“Pilgrims cared for my aunt Maureen and supported my uncle and cousins so wonderfully. It meant a lot to be able to contribute to such an important cause.”
“My Auntie was a beautiful person – so kind and caring. It’s still so hard to believe she’s no longer with us. I wanted to give back on behalf of our family in a small way. When my Uncle Mark asked me to help out, my first thought was to represent the hospice and reflect their care and compassion.”
Diana’s contribution became part of 100 Pieces of Art, Pilgrims Hospices’ creative fundraising event, held at the Anthony Giles Studio in Margate. The event brought together artists, art lovers and supporters from across the county to raise vital funds for hospice care in east Kent.
Karen Kenward, Pilgrims Hospices Community Fundraising Manager, said:
“We were incredibly touched by the generosity of the Boland family and the beauty of Diana’s jewellery. It was clear how much love had gone into the design, and how much it meant to the family.
“This story moved everyone attending, and the pieces helped us raise additional funds to support more families in need of end-of-life care.”
Pilgrims Hospices provides compassionate care and support for over 2,500 people living with a terminal illness each year across east Kent. Events like 100 Pieces of Art are crucial in helping to fund these services.
“We’re so thankful to Mark, Sharon, Diana, and everyone who contributed to this year’s auction,” added Karen. “Their generosity is helping us to continue delivering comfort and dignity to those who need it most.”
Pilgrims Hospices provides compassionate, specialist care free of charge to more than 3,000 people in east Kent each year who are living with a terminal illness. Support is offered in patients’ homes, in the community, and at our three hospice sites in Ashford, Canterbury and Thanet. We also run a 24-hour advice line.
11th June 2025
Fiona’s Kilimanjaro climb in aid of Pilgrims Hospices
At 62 years old, Fiona Dobson from Canterbury is no stranger to a challenge – and now she’s preparing to climb Mount Kilimanjaro to raise vital funds for Pilgrims Hospices, where she volunteers as a Ward Support Volunteer.
The trek will take place over eight days from 6–12 June 2025, and Fiona has already raised more than £4,000 to support local hospice care.
Fiona Dobson, Ward Support Volunteer at Pilgrims Hospices
“I’m paying for my own trip because I didn’t want any of the fundraising to go towards costs – I want every penny raised to support the care Pilgrims offers,” Fiona explained.
Fiona’s relationship with Pilgrims spans nearly four decades. She began her nursing career at the hospice in 1986, working alongside well-known figures in the team such as Annie Hogben. Over the years, she went on to become a district nurse, a practice nurse, and continues to do freelance vaccination work.
“I started my career here, and I’d like to finish it here too,” she said. “Volunteering on the ward once a week means a lot to me – it’s special. I love it.”
Fiona has seen first-hand the importance of hospice care, having lost her dad at Pilgrims 20 years ago, a close friend in 2020, and her husband’s brother in December last year.
“The care is so much more than the beds on the ward – it’s the ongoing support for families, friends, and the counselling services too. That support makes all the difference.”
An experienced hillwalker and climber, Fiona has tackled a host of impressive challenges, including the Yorkshire Three Peaks, parts of the Alps and Pyrenees, and 50 Scottish “Fionas” – lesser-known peaks once referred to as Grahams – as well as a number of Munros and Corbetts.
“There are often no paths on the Fionas – it’s really rough terrain, but that’s what I love. This Kilimanjaro challenge will take it to a whole new level.”
Her preparation for Kilimanjaro is well underway. Fiona trains regularly by running the hilly paths of the Kent Downs, walking, doing yoga, going to the gym, and taking part in cycling events – including Pilgrims’ Cycle Challenge.
“I did the 50-mile route just a few weeks ago,” she said. “It was really windy this year with a big headwind – one of the hardest yet, and I’ve done it a few times! I only found out recently that a photo of me from the 2017 event is on the side of one of the Pilgrims vans!”
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Fiona and friends fundraising for Pilgrims Hospices
When she’s not training, Fiona enjoys time on the White Cliffs of Dover with her two dogs. Now retired from full-time nursing and with two grown-up children, she’s embracing the freedom to pursue challenges that make a difference.
Fiona will travel with a friend as part of a group of about 20 trekkers, and she plans to document the adventure with plenty of photos.
“I’m expecting to make some new friends – it’ll be a life-changing experience,” she said. “But most importantly, it’s all for Pilgrims. It’s a brilliant place and I’m proud to support it however I can.”
You can support Fiona’s Kilimanjaro Challenge by visiting her JustGiving page.
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Each year, Pilgrims Hospices care for thousands of people across east Kent, with services provided from its three hospice sites in Ashford, Canterbury, and Thanet, as well as in patients’ own homes. It costs over £17.2 million annually to run these services, much of which comes from the generous support of the local community.
8th May 2025
Pilgrims Hospices celebrate 80 years since VE Day
On Thursday 8 May 2025, Pilgrims Hospices joined the nation in commemorating the 80th anniversary of VE Day – the momentous occasion that marked the end of war in Europe during World War II.
Across our three hospice sites in Ashford, Canterbury and Thanet, staff, patients and their families came together to remember, reflect and celebrate. Each hospice was beautifully decorated with red, white and blue bunting, creating a festive atmosphere that honoured the spirit of national unity and remembrance.
The day was filled with warmth and reflection. Celebration cakes were shared and enjoyed by all, prepared with care by our dedicated catering teams. The event brought people together in both joy and quiet contemplation, recognising the incredible sacrifices made by generations past and the peace and freedom that followed years of hardship and conflict.
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Some patients and visitors shared personal memories or stories handed down through their families, while others took comfort in simply being part of a collective moment of gratitude. These connections, rooted in compassion and history, are at the heart of what Pilgrims Hospices stands for.
We are proud to create opportunities where community spirit and shared values shine through, even in the most challenging times. VE Day serves as a poignant reminder of resilience, peace, and the strength of the human spirit – values we uphold every day in our work.
A heartfelt thank you to all our staff and volunteers who made the day so special.
Lest we forget.
Each year, Pilgrims Hospices care for thousands of people across east Kent, with services provided from its three hospice sites in Ashford, Canterbury, and Thanet, as well as in patients’ own homes. It costs over £17.2 million annually to run these services, much of which comes from the generous support of the local community.
23rd April 2025
Sustainable style at Pilgrims Hospices Canterbury Vintage shop and Store50
These two treasure troves offer an array of unique pieces, perfect for anyone looking to make a sustainable style statement.
Canterbury Vintage and Retro brims with timeless classics from retro eras, where high-waisted trousers, polka-dot dresses, and tailored blazers transport you to a more elegant time.
Meanwhile, Store50 brings you modern twists with repurposed and retrended pieces, blending vintage charm with contemporary flair.
Together, they offer endless opportunities to mix and match, experiment, and craft a wardrobe that is as unique as you are.
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All items are preloved and generously donated by supporters who trust that discerning shoppers like you will cherish these treasures and give them a vibrant new lease of life. From timeless vintage gems to creatively repurposed garments, each piece has its own story and charm, waiting to become part of yours.
Whether you’re seeking a bold retro jacket, a delicate vintage scarf, or reimagined denim with a contemporary edge, these shops have something for every style enthusiast. Plus, by shopping with Pilgrims Hospices, you’re not only redefining your wardrobe – you’re making a difference. Every purchase helps fund compassionate end-of-life care for those in need across our local community.
To get inspired, explore the beautifully styled outfits showcased in the photographs, featuring one-of-a-kind items from both shops.
Visit Canterbury Vintage and Retro and Store50 today, where fashion meets purpose. Give preloved treasures a new home and support Pilgrims Hospices in providing vital care.
Together, let’s celebrate sustainable style and compassionate care.
Each year, Pilgrims Hospices care for thousands of people across east Kent, with services provided from its three hospice sites in Ashford, Canterbury, and Thanet, as well as in patients’ own homes. It costs over £17.2 million annually to run these services, much of which comes from the generous support of the local community.
9th April 2025
Pilgrims Hospices is grateful to Quinn Estates for their donation
Pilgrims Hospices is very grateful to Quinn Estates Ltd, who have made a significant donation to the charity. This will greatly help us with the modernisation project on London Road.
Mark Quinn, Chairman and Chief Executive of Quinn Estates Ltd, has been a long-standing supporter of Pilgrims Hospices and our ambition to improve our facilities in Canterbury.
Pilgrims Hospices have a special place in Mark Quinn’s heart and we are very moved that he has made such a generous donation at such a critical time as we embark on modernising our hospice on London Road. We wish to place on record our thanks and it is enormously touching that Mark and his team will continue to support us.
Helen Bennett, Chief Executive of Pilgrims Hospices
The Pilgrims Hospices deliver amazing work for the community, something I have first-hand experience of. I am incredibly proud to have supported their ambitions over the past decade, whether that’s through strategic land consultancy and planning support or funding towards building a new hospice, or now to support the refurbishment and modernisation of their existing facilities. I look forward to seeing the refurbishment and supporting them for the future.
Mark Quinn, Chairman and Chief Executive of Quinn Estates Ltd
Pilgrims Hospices is a charity dedicated to providing expert care and support to patients with life-limiting illnesses in east Kent. Our services ensure comfort, dignity, and quality of life for patients and their families, offering compassionate care both in hospice settings and in the community.
