Michael Taylor was diagnosed with liver cancer in 2015. Initially given a 5-year prognosis, he exceeded this, and continues to live well at home in Herne Bay with support from Pilgrims Hospices.
Born in Bromley, Michael was raised by his mother, Winifred, and many doting aunts and uncles. His father, John James Taylor, was a firefighter, but sadly died aged 28, when Michael was just three days old.
After marrying his wife, Brenda, the couple moved to Faversham and started their own family, welcoming three children – Helen, Paul, who sadly died of cot death aged 14 months, and Rachel – and now have five grandchildren.
Michael and Brenda on their 50th wedding anniversary
Michael was referred to Pilgrims in 2021 and attended Time to Create, therapeutic art groups that run at the Therapy Centres on each hospice site, offering relief from the challenges of living with a terminal illness. By then, Brenda had Alzheimer’s disease, but she was able to accompany Michael to the groups.
Michael said: “The Pilgrims team was extremely good; they sat and chatted with Brenda while I got on and did my own thing. I enjoyed it very much.
“The food was so lovely too, beautiful! Especially the cheese omelettes. We attended Time to Create for quite a long time, but it eventually got too much for Brenda, so I stopped for a few years.”
Michael enjoyed a long career as an architectural technician. Initially working in London and Kent, he eventually ran his own practice – Rowlett and Taylor – in Broadstairs with his colleague, Malcolm. He continued to draw, paint and build models into his retirement, so Time to Create appealed to his natural artistic flair. He credits Pilgrims with getting him back into his creative hobbies:
“After Brenda went into a nursing home, I had a phone call from Elizabeth in the Pilgrims Wellbeing team asking if I’d like to re-join Time to Create.
“Pilgrims provided a taxi for me, which was amazing. I hadn’t done any art or drawing, hadn’t touched a paintbrush or pencil or anything, in those two years since I’d stopped going. That phone call from Elizabeth got me right back into it; making art at Pilgrims again got me completely turned around.
“I’m a bit of a loner, so I had just been sitting in a chair for two years doing absolutely nothing, and now I can’t stop painting and drawing!”
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Michael’s artwork
Michael has been so well supported that he no longer feels he needs to attend the hospice Wellbeing groups, as Pilgrims has helped enable him to live comfortably at home. He does his own cooking, and has carers and a cleaner for extra support. He also enjoys visits from his children and grandchildren.
Michael now plans to attend his local Age UK group, which meets on Tuesdays, offering the chance to socialise with others and enjoy lunch together.
Michael continues to paint and draw, which is helping him to live as well and independently as possible. He recently sketched Herne Bay train station for his local model railway club, and is also a talented pianist; a church organist for 60 years, he now plays for his own pleasure.
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Michael’s artwork
Although Michael doesn’t feel he needs Pilgrims at the moment, he knows he can access their support in the future:
“I’m not worried about death (can’t say I’m looking forward to it or wishing it was tomorrow!), but it doesn’t bother me because I have a strong Christian faith. I feel at ease, because if my health deteriorates, I can contact the hospice and go back into their care. Everybody I’ve met at Pilgrims is so kind – from the receptionists, to the catering and care teams, and everyone in between. They always make the time to sit and talk to me, even if they’re rushed off their feet.
“I would say to anybody who is in my situation – who is lonely and has lost interest – to ask Pilgrims about their Wellbeing groups, because I have found them really worthwhile. They get you out of yourself, and I’m so grateful to Pilgrims for inviting me to get involved.”
For more information on Pilgrims Hospices’ Wellbeing Programme:
Call the Pilgrims Hospices Advice Line on 01233 504 133
Each year, Pilgrims Hospices care for thousands of people across east Kent, with services provided from its three hospice sites in Ashford, Canterbury, and Thanet, as well as in patients’ own homes. It costs over £17.2 million annually to run these services, much of which comes from the generous support of the local community.
23rd September 2025
Dead Good Artists exhibition gives new life to local artwork
During January-April 2025, Pilgrims Hospices collaborated with The Wooden Box Gallery in Ramsgate to develop Dead Good Artists, an exhibition of artwork by people who have died, and the stories behind it.
This was part of Pilgrims’ Compassionate Communities project, working with local communities to encourage more open discussions about death, dying, loss and grief.
People often leave their creative work behind when they die. These legacies can bring comfort and joy to their loved ones. For others, the responsibility of taking care of these memories may not be so easy.
Elspeth Ogilvie’s artwork
Dead Good Artists invited anyone who has become a custodian of a loved one’s artwork to share it for inclusion in a gallery setting, giving it new life. It offered an opportunity to honour and share these personal creations, recognising the individuals behind them – those who are no longer with us.
Exhibitors were invited to attend one of two workshops facilitated by Pilgrims team members, where together they were encouraged to reflect on the profound responsibility of becoming the custodian of someone’s artistic legacy, exploring both the joys and challenges of preserving and carrying forward their creative spirit.
Mark and Jacky Ogilvie from Ashford submitted work by their daughter, Elspeth, who was cared for at Pilgrims Hospice Ashford and died in December 2024.
They said: “As Elspeth died very recently, this exhibition is helping us with grieving her loss. The simple acts of writing a short bio, choosing a photo, selecting and mounting her work, and taking it into the gallery, have been emotionally challenging. But it also feels helpful.
“Elspeth enjoyed participating in Time to Create therapeutic art groups at the Ashford hospice. She never thought her work was “good enough”, so it’s lovely to see it exhibited in the company of others’, and to hear that people are interested. It’s been so nice doing something positive in Elspeth’s memory; this is part of her legacy.”
Mark and Jacky Ogilvie with their daughter Elspeth’s artwork
Another exhibitor said:
“When I saw the callout for the exhibition, I immediately knew that I’d like to submit a piece of my grandfather’s art. He constantly drew and created out of nothing; he’d use the back of a cornflakes box or whatever was laying in the kitchen, and a real mix of media, to create these intricate pieces. It wasn’t as though he could earn his living through art, and it actually means quite a lot to the whole family that it’s now hanging on a gallery wall.”
Visitors enjoyed the exhibition, too: “Very moving. I would like to see this theme return; the accompanying texts are lovely and help the work to come alive.”
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Some of the artwork featured in the exhibition
Rebekah Sunshine, owner of The Wooden Box Gallery, added:
“I knew it was something that was really needed, but I didn’t quite realise how it was going to impact people. It’s been amazing and moving. It was lovely to work with so many different people, hearing their family’s stories and bringing their loved ones back into our reality to talk about them. I’m so happy that lots of family members had the opportunity to have their loved ones’ artwork on the wall, especially as they may not have done that when they were alive – it’s a really proud moment for them. Pilgrims has been so supportive, especially with organising and facilitating the workshops for our exhibitors.”
Sophie Van Walwyk, Compassionate Communities lead at Pilgrims Hospices, said:
“The Dead Good Artists exhibition was such a wonderful way to celebrate the lives and works of so many talented individuals, who are sadly no longer with us. To help support exhibitors through their ongoing grief journey, Pilgrims created a safe space that encouraged reflection on both the beauty and burden of custodianship together. Learning more about the impact of both the artist’s life and death brought a deeper level of meaning to each piece of art.”
To find out more about Pilgrims Compassionate Communities work, or if you would like to become involved in creating a compassionate community in east Kent, please visit pilgrimshospices.org/compassionate-communities.
Each year, Pilgrims Hospices care for thousands of people across east Kent, with services provided from its three hospice sites in Ashford, Canterbury, and Thanet, as well as in patients’ own homes. It costs over £17.2 million annually to run these services, much of which comes from the generous support of the local community.
7th August 2025
Pilgrims Hospices help John and Virginia create poignant legacy with hand casting
John Godden, from St Mary’s Bay, a coastal village on Romney Marsh, is being supported by Pilgrims Hospices to live well alongside managing a life-limiting illness.
John enjoyed a long career in property maintenance, but now has chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD) and pulmonary hypertension, which means he has to take each day at a much slower pace.
John and Virginia in the Ashford hospice garden
John said: “Retirement wasn’t in my plans! I loved my job, it was very physical and kept me active, but when I turned 70, my health took a turn.
“I was hospitalised for seven weeks due to a bad chest infection and high CO2 levels. Whilst there, a consultant mentioned referring me to the hospice. I was quite poorly and no one was sure if I’d pull through, but I did. Once I’d been discharged from hospital, I spoke to Pilgrims. I met their community team, they got to know me and explained how it would all work. A Pilgrims nurse contacts me every two weeks to check in, ask how I’m doing and find out if I need any extra support. It’s very helpful.”
John and his wife, Virginia, are making the most of Pilgrims’ varied offerings at their local hospice in Ashford. John benefitted from a breathlessness management group, which has given him useful tools to manage his symptoms at home. He is signed up for a mindfulness class in the near future, which he is looking forward to. Virginia accesses a carers support group and plans to have counselling sessions, too. The couple also attend Time to Create therapeutic art groups run by the Wellbeing team, where they have been able to create a cast of their interlinked hands, a poignant keepsake to take home and treasure.
John continued: “The groups are so important to me because they get me out. I’ve met some wonderful people; the staff here at amazing, the other people who attend are lovely. It’s a really friendly environment. The hand casting was particularly special because it’s all about connection, being close to each other, holding hands. It’s amazing how it catches all the fine details.”
Hand casting is a powerful legacy activity, providing families with a tangible memento of their loved ones. The process offers the opportunity to connect, interact and share stories and anecdotes, bringing people together at what is often a challenging time. Pilgrims can only offer this service through the support of its generous community, and the charity is truly grateful to anyone who purchases a kit via its Amazon Wish Listfor patients and families to benefit from.
John and Virginia with their hand cast
Virginia added: “Right now, Pilgrims is a lifeline for us, it’s the only consistent support we get. We know we can call the 24-hour advice line if we need anything, or if John deteriorates; the staff are so caring and attentive, we can’t fault them. Pilgrims also gets us out to socialise with other people experiencing life-limiting illnesses, which is so important; when we’re here, we really benefit.”
John continued: “We’re learning lots from Pilgrims, not just about managing my COPD but also via all the activities in Time to Create – it’s so interesting to me, because I’m not artistic, but I try! I really enjoy it. It’s different every week, there’s always something new to do.
John and Virginia’s hand cast
“I’d tell anyone in my position that they should come here, because it’s not what it seems. You might think, like I did, it’s only for old people who are on their last legs! It’s not like that at all. But equally, if I did deteriorate, I would want to come to the hospice.
“What’s important to me is being able to live a relatively normal life, which is something we often take for granted. Pilgrims is helping me to do that as much as possible, and I’m so grateful.”
We’re in need of hand casting kits for each of our hospices in Ashford, Canterbury and Thanet, to enable more people like John and Virginia to experience the many benefits of creating lasting legacies.
Our Amazon Wish Listhas been carefully put together by staff from all departments across our hospices, and contains items that will help us the most – including hand casting kits.
Call the Pilgrims Hospices 24-hour Advice Line on01233 504 133
Pilgrims Hospices provides compassionate, specialist care free of charge to more than 3,000 people in east Kent each year who are living with life-limiting conditions. Support is offered in patients’ homes, in the community, and at our three hospice sites in Canterbury, Thanet and Ashford. We also run a 24-hour advice line.
14th March 2025
Photography workshop brings joy to Pilgrims Hospices patients
Wellbeing groups at Pilgrims Hospices offer many benefits to patients living with a life-limiting illness, as well as their family members and carers.
Time to Create is a therapeutic art group that runs weekly in the hospice Therapy Centres.
On 6 March 2025, Pilgrims welcomed local photographer, Emily Rose Parris, to its Thanet hospice to deliver a cyanotype workshop.
Using UV light – from the sun or a light box – patients created beautiful prints using a variety of materials. Known as blueprints, sun prints and solar prints, cyanotypes are one of the earliest forms of photography, founded in 1842 by Sir John Herschel.
The process was made most notable by Kent-based artist Anna Atkins, who worked alongside him. Cyanotypes are suitable for all ages and abilities, making them a fun and inclusive creative activity.
Sharon Thompson, Wellbeing Practitioner Team Leader, said:
“It was a perfectly presented workshop on a very interesting topic. Patients and carers were absorbed in the creative process, enabling them to explore their creativity.”
After graduating from Kingston University with a BA (Hons) in Photography, she found herself without a local darkroom to continue her practice; so, with the help of family, friends and volunteers, she built one. Emily offers a range of workshops for the general public, as well as for local community groups like Pilgrims.
She said: “Pilgrims is a charity close to my heart. My grandad was a patient here; whilst it was a truly difficult time for my family, we knew he was in safe hands. Pilgrims cared for him, kept us informed and directed us to the relevant support.
“Many years on, I’m proud to have taken part in Pilgrims Hospices Cycle Challenge twice, and I continue to offer creative workshops to patients and carers on a voluntary basis when possible.”
Patients enjoyed welcoming Emily to Time to Create, spending a sunny afternoon immersed in creativity and socialising with friends.
Linda Rose from Margate said: “It’s so different, fun and brilliant; even my husband enjoys coming along to these groups. They’re really lovely.”
Linda Rose with her husband, Chris
Another patient, Monica Field from Ramsgate, shared her experience: “Emily’s workshop was so interesting. I love crafts and making my own cards, but I’ve never tried anything like this before, it’s really fascinating what you can make. If I had a light box at home, I’d be on it all day!”
Monica Field with one of her cyanotype prints
Monica has been attending Wellbeing groups at Pilgrims since November 2024.
She continued:
“I live on my own, so I like coming here and chatting to people. We’re all in the same boat and we can talk about it. My friend had cancer and was cared for by Pilgrims many years ago, and I thought then that it was a lovely place. When I was asked if I wanted to be referred, I said, “Yes, please.” They do such a wonderful job here. When I walk into the hospice, I feel a sense of peace come over me.”
Emily added:
“Creative workshops are a vital service for patients, family members and carers. The activities provide an environment that encourages playfulness, mindfulness and collaboration. The act of creating is proven to be a positive source of respite and rest from the difficulties they are facing. It’s an opportunity for everyone to talk candidly alongside people who understand what they are going through, whilst also creating something for themselves.
Patients Maureen Harding and Monica Field with Emily Rose Parris
“During our cyanotype workshop, the patients expressed to me that they love taking part for a multitude of reasons. They feel a sense of community, have a connection to nature via the amazing garden space and form bonds with fellow patients and staff. They told me that although they are unwell, the groups help them to feel like their entire selves, that the staff are interested in them and their lives, and ultimately make them feel listened to, seen and understood. It was a joy to talk to the patients, hear about their lives and their outlook.”
Each year, Pilgrims Hospices care for thousands of people across east Kent, with services provided from its three hospice sites in Ashford, Canterbury, and Thanet, as well as in patients’ own homes. It costs over £17.2 million annually to run these services, much of which comes from the generous support of the local community.
25th September 2024
Pilgrims Hospices to host reading group for patients and carers
This autumn, Pilgrims Hospices is excited to introduce a new reading group, offering patients and carers a chance to come together and enjoy the beauty of literature.
The six-week group, generously funded by the Royal Literary Society, will be hosted by Alicia Foster, a Fellow of the Royal Literary Fund (RLF) and a professional writer.
Each week, Alicia will select pieces of short fiction and poetry to read aloud and share with the group. After each reading, there will be an opportunity to discuss the material as a group. However, there’s no obligation to participate in the discussion – the focus is on creating a welcoming, relaxed space where everyone can share in the enjoyment of words.
The group will take place at Pilgrims Hospices’ Canterbury Therapy Centre, but it is open to patients and carers from all Pilgrims sites. If the group proves popular, there are plans to replicate it in the future, potentially with our own staff leading similar sessions.
Alicia Foster, who has experience running Reading Round groups in various settings, said: “The intention is to create a welcoming and unpressured space where we can share a pleasure in words.
“There’s no pressure to participate in discussions, but many enjoy sharing their thoughts. I’m looking forward to bringing it to Pilgrims.”
The group will begin in October 2024, aligning perfectly with the season when cosy, reflective activities like reading feel just right as the nights draw in. Reading groups like this one can offer profound benefits, from helping participants understand new perspectives and process difficult experiences, to fostering feelings of hope, empathy, and contentment. Reading is also known to improve self-esteem, self-awareness, and overall wellbeing.
If you’re interested in joining the group, simply call Pilgrims Hospices and ask to be connected to the Wellbeing team at your local site.
Spaces are limited, so don’t hesitate to get in touch:
“We’re really excited to offer this reading group to our patients and carers this autumn. It’s such a wonderful opportunity to come together in a relaxed setting and enjoy the simple pleasure of hearing and sharing stories.
“At Pilgrims Hospices, we always strive to support emotional and mental wellbeing as much as physical care, and reading has been shown to have amazing benefits. It allows our patients and carers to find time for themselves, away from worry and daily stress. I truly believe this group will bring a sense of connection and comfort to those who join, and we’re delighted to be able to offer this unique experience.”
Pilgrims Hospices is a charity dedicated to providing expert care and support to patients with life-limiting illnesses in east Kent. Our services ensure comfort, dignity, and quality of life for patients and their families, offering compassionate care both in hospice settings and in the community.
6th September 2024
Pilgrims Hospices patients showcase artwork at Margate exhibition
Pilgrims Hospices offer many therapeutic activities through its Wellbeing Programme, giving both patients and carers the opportunity to try something new.
They can help with relaxation, reducing anxiety and forming new social connections.
Beverley with her husband, John
Time to Create therapeutic art group sessions provide creative and social activities to enjoy with others.
In July 2024, patients attending Time to Create were invited by local artist, Beverley Parker, to showcase their artwork in her exhibition Then & Now at Pie Factory, Margate. Beverley’s husband, artist John Horton, was cared for at Pilgrims Hospice Canterbury in 2023. The exhibition was dedicated to his memory.
John had prostate cancer and was referred to Pilgrims in 2022. He chose to remain at home, rather than going into the hospice, and received support and care at home when he approached the end of life.
Beverley said: “Pilgrims played an enormous part; they were supportive, caring and understanding, treating him with dignity and a gentle sense of humour, which he would have loved. They guided me through his last hours, and he died peacefully on 25 September 2023.
“I turned to the hospice nurses after John’s death. There was someone on the phone who listened when I had no one else to talk to late at night, and they put me in contact with the counselling services at Pilgrims, which has been so helpful.
“Through visiting the Canterbury hospice, I saw a different side to the hospice than I had imagined. The first time I walked into the reception area and saw the boxes of tissues on the tables, I could hardly say my name I was so upset. However, I also felt an enormous sense of comfort. The volunteers on reception were warm and friendly. It didn’t smell like a hospital (which I dreaded), there were flowers, there was art on the walls, people were smiling.
Time to Create patients with their artwork
“I heard about Time to Create, and as an artist I was very interested in art as therapy, recognising how powerful it is – it is a living statement, it is positive and empowering. I met Sharon from the Wellbeing team and patients attending the sessions, and I asked if they would like to exhibit their work with me at my exhibition. It was a success. We had a private view where I met more of the artists and their families, and that was particularly poignant – to meet others who are currently going through what I had been going through. We hugged, there were a few tears, but there was so much joy in the gallery. I felt I was giving something back for the support I’d received from the hospice. John was an artist himself, and he would have been delighted to have seen the work we all exhibited.”
Patients created their exhibition artwork within Time to Create sessions at each hospice in Ashford, Canterbury and Thanet. They enjoyed the process and seeing their work showcased in a gallery. The Wellbeing team showed digital versions of the artwork in the Pilgrims Therapy Centre, for patients who were unable to attend the exhibition.
Sharon Smith, Wellbeing Practitioner Team Leader, said:
“It was an amazing opportunity for our Time to Create participants to be invited to showcase their creative work alongside Beverley’s artwork. Patients allowed their emotions – happiness, sadness, even anger – to guide their creativity. Attending the private view and seeing them show their work to family members and friends, reminded me how important creativity can be. It allows people to express themselves, improves wellbeing and makes people feel empowered.”
For more information on Pilgrims Hospices’ Wellbeing Programme:
Call the Pilgrims Hospices Advice Line on 01233 504 133
Pilgrims Hospices is a charity dedicated to providing expert care and support to patients with life-limiting illnesses in east Kent. Our services ensure comfort, dignity, and quality of life for patients and their families, offering compassionate care both in hospice settings and in the community.
