Angela enjoys getting creative with Pilgrims Hospices
Angela Clarke from Westbrook near Margate attends weekly Time to Create sessions at Pilgrims Hospices, which offer fun, creative activities aimed at improving patients’ wellbeing.
She is enjoying creating artwork, meeting new friends and experiencing a different side to hospice care that she didn’t know about until coming to Pilgrims.
Through being referred to a Pilgrims breathlessness management course by a nurse at Guy’s Hospital, London, Angela heard about the charity’s wider wellbeing services and was keen to find out more. She was introduced to Billy Williams and Kyla Szukala, Wellbeing Practitioners, who welcomed her to the Time to Create group at the Thanet hospice.
I always thought hospice care was just offered at the end of life, and there was a fear around it. How very wrong I was. It’s friendly; we’re all struggling, but you can lose yourself for a few hours and just be.
Angela
Angela said: “I’m a complete novice, but I’m really enjoying it. We’ve worked with acrylics, watercolours and pastels, made Easter wreaths and done a project for the Queen’s Platinum Jubilee. We also made felt teddy bears; I didn’t finish mine in the group because I had to go to hospital, but I took it with me to work on during my stay, and it helped to keep me busy and take my mind off things.
“Having a finished product is lovely, although that’s not what matters really – it’s the taking part and enjoying others’ company. It’s nice to be away from home and spend time with different people. I look forward to the Time to Create groups, and I miss them when they don’t run.”
Angela also takes her newfound creativity home with her; after using watercolours in the group, she now paints the fruit and flowers in her garden.
She added: “I always thought hospice care was just offered at the end of life, and there was a fear around it. How very wrong I was. It’s friendly; we’re all struggling, but you can lose yourself for a few hours and just be.”
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Hospice Care Week is an annual event where we recognise and celebrate Hospice UK and hospice care nationwide. It’s an opportunity to show the world the value of support, of care and of what matters to us as individuals at the end of life when we need it most.
Pilgrims Hospices cares for thousands of local people each year, free of charge, during the most challenging time in their lives. They offer care and support in people’s own homes, in the community and in their inpatient units as well as running a 24-hour advice line.
4th October 2022
Time to Create: World Space Week
Inspired by World Space Week, we got creative with chalks, oil pastels and glitter to make beautiful space scenes.
It can be a challenge to get the creative ideas flowing; in our Wellbeing groups, we like to use a theme to help with this. Using images of planets, nebula and stars as a starting point, we began working on black card to develop participants’ own artistic interpretations of space.
Using black card enables the pastels and chalks to really jump off the page, creating a colourful and magical representation of space. The great thing about an activity like this is that it can be as abstract or as real as you like; there is no right or wrong way to begin your design.
Let’s get crafty
What you’ll need
Glitter
Scissors
PVA glue
Black card
Coloured chalks
Coloured pastels
On your black card, use white to dot around and draw the outline of a planet. You can use your finger to smudge the colours and blend them into each other; this creates a more fluid effect that will enhance the design. Don’t be afraid to layer the pastels and work with lots of different colours, this will create depth and make your pieces feel more real.
If you’d like to know more about Pilgrims Hospices’ Wellbeing services, email our team with any questions at [email protected] or call the Pilgrims Hospices Advice Line on 01233 504 133.
2nd September 2022
Advanced Clinical Practitioner Theresa celebrates 30 years of caring
Dedicated Advanced Clinical Practitioner (ACP) Theresa Rowlstone, celebrates a 30-year career providing expert end-of-life care for the people of the east Kent community.
Theresa, from Whitstable trained as a nurse at the Canterbury and Thanet School of Nursing, she qualified in January 1987, having toyed with the options of children’s physiotherapy or teaching before her training.
Pilgrims Hospices is grateful for the influence of Theresa’s mum who was also a nurse, who encouraged her to train. We are fortunate to benefit from her compassionate skills and continued learning within palliative care nursing. Theresa plans to continue with her love of caring for those who need that extra special Pilgrims care, along with supporting her colleagues with specialist training.
I’ve always enjoyed nursing patients who need some additional time and care, and have a keen interest in palliative care where these skills are particularly useful. There’s something very special about looking after the elderly or people with longer-term health conditions.
Theresa
Theresa began her nursing career from school, initially taking a nursing role in Ear, Nose and Throat post at Kent and Canterbury hospital.
She said: “I saw the hospice was advertising for nurses and I applied, and got the job in March 1988; spending time until January 1990 as a staff nurse at the Canterbury hospice. As a staff nurse, I worked with Annie Hogben, who is also still a member of the Pilgrims care team; we were both in our early 20s when we started and later had families around about the same time, it’s so nice to see we’ve been able to continue our careers with Pilgrims Hospices.
“I took some time away from the hospices to work at the Royal Marsden on a specialist cancer course. It gave me an important foundation to know more about a patient’s cancer journey with chemotherapy and other treatments explored in great depth. I was keen to return to the hospice but was encouraged by the Matron Ann Campbell to continue to extend my skills, so I worked on Viking Ward at Margate hospital as a senior staff nurse for nearly two years.
“I’ve always enjoyed nursing patients who need some additional time and care, and have a keen interest in palliative care where these skills are particularly useful. There’s something very special about looking after the elderly or people with longer-term health conditions.
“I always wanted to return to hospice care, and watched with great interest as the hospice in Margate was built as I passed by on the bus.
“I had an opportunity to interview for a post at the new hospice, and was appointed as ward sister starting in August 1992, with an induction in Canterbury while the Thanet hospice was being made ready, it was very exciting.”
Over the years, Theresa initially spent two years at the Canterbury hospice as a staff nurse, then worked as a ward sister, and senior nurse manager for 17 years at Thanet. She has nursed on all three of Pilgrims Hospices sites in Canterbury, Ashford and Thanet.
Throughout Theresa’s nursing career with Pilgrims, she’s been an integral part of training and education for Pilgrims nurses and the wider community of carers. Her interest in supporting and developing her colleagues’ knowledge and skills has led her to qualifying in teaching; she achieved a Master’s degree in 2009 and joined the education team in a clinical practice development role. The role involved palliative care training both internally and externally, working closely with the education team to also set up clinical skills training. She has also been involved with working with the Hospice at Home team’s training and development, and assessing / mentoringthem whilst completing their foundation degree.
Theresa added: “Although I loved the training and teaching element, I truly missed the nursing on the ground level, and it wasn’t long before I returned to the wards to support patients first-hand.”
After adding some additional skills to her portfolio, she applied for the position as a trainee ACP. She has now worked as an Advanced Clinical Practitioner for over seven years. The ACP role is a relatively new initiative and is developing country-wide as healthcare services change. This fulfils a similar role to a doctor, working closely with patients, their families and colleagues to prescribe and plan for the management of their symptoms, medication plan and ongoing care. Theresa still has some involvement with research and education, as this is an important part of what Pilgrims do.
Each site has an ACP – Debbie Boots, Amanda Timms and Theresa – with three trainees starting this year – Charlotte, Michelle and Hayley – who will ensure these important senior roles have successors. Pilgrims want to ensure staff can continue to develop their careers in palliative care.
I’m sure many people don’t realise that 40% – 50% of our patients are discharged home from the hospice in-patient unit, andcontinue their care and support within the community services. These services are an invaluable part of Pilgrims care, helping people to remain in the comfort of their own home for as long as possible.
Theresa
Theresa is married to Paul and they have two grown up sons, who are her greatest supporters. She added: “My boys have been involved with Pilgrims from when they were babies. Over the years, they have met so many of my colleagues, been recruited as volunteers and helped at many events, including summer fairs and the Christmas Trees of Love at the hospices.”
When asked how she relaxes, Theresa said: “I used to sing with local choirs, but am now part of the local theatre in Whitstable, performing in plays, pantomimes and musicals. I can also be found leading the theatre’s wardrobe team.
“I’m a grandmother now, and visit as much as I can, so that’s pretty special in my life too.”
Theresa Rowlstone
“I have seen many changes, worked under a number of Chief Executives and Senior Nurses, but our priority has always been our patients, they are at the heart of everything we do. The breadth of services we offer is brilliant, introducing more patients to our social work, counselling, spiritual care, physio, occupational therapy and wellbeing support. I’m sure many people don’t realise that 40% – 50% of our patients are discharged home from the hospice in-patient unit, andcontinue their care and support within the community services. These services are an invaluable part of Pilgrims care, helping people to remain in the comfort of their own home for as long as possible.
“I have the same passion now as I had in the beginning. I’m very lucky that I love what I do and it gives me so much back professionally and personally; I feel very blessed, not too many people can say that about their job. I’ve met some amazing and inspiring people during my career, and I’ve found it a very happy experience, and a supportive area to work in. It’s wonderful to see the hospices recognised as the clinical speciality we see today, which is very different from the 1980s as the service was evolving.
“I’m very pleased to have been persuaded to apply for my role as an ACP, it was the best decision career-wise that I’ve made.”
Pilgrims Hospices cares for thousands of local people each year, free of charge, during the most challenging time in their lives. They offer care and support in people’s own homes, in the community and in their inpatient units as well as running a 24-hour advice line.
24th August 2022
Pilgrims Hospices make patient’s wedding wish come true
Elaine and Jason Edwards, a former carpenter, from Herne Bay were married in a civil ceremony at Jason’s flat on Saturday 30 July 2022. This was an extra special occasion, as Jason has motor neurone disease (MND) and is receiving support from Pilgrims Hospices.
The charity helped to make their big day possible, enabling them to create beautiful memories that will last forever.
The family is incredibly grateful for Pilgrims’ care, which frequently extends beyond its physical hospices and into the wider east Kent community.
Martyn Yates, Spiritual Care Lead and Complementary Therapist at Pilgrims, was integral in organising Elaine and Jason’s marriage.
Jason and Elaine on their wedding day
Elaine said: “Our experience with Pilgrims Hospices has been totally amazing. We had Martyn come out and see us from the spiritual care team, to help us with getting married. He was amazing. He was very informative, and due to all his help, we were married at home in Jason’s flat with a few family members and very close friends in attendance.
Martyn Yates
“Pilgrims gives us as a family help and support in ways we never imagined possible. They are on hand for help and advice 24 hours a day; it gives us peace of mind knowing that they are there throughout this hard time in our lives. It means so much to us that they are here for us. They do an amazing job, and we can’t thank them enough for all they do.”
Martyn added: “One of the really important parts of the work we do at Pilgrims is to make every day as good as it can be for both our patients and their families – so they can live their lives to the full. Our links with community agencies help us to do this; in this case, the Canterbury registrars pulled out all the stops, and between us we were able to achieve Elaine and Jason’s wishes. It is so lovely to be able to do things like this for our patients and their families.”
Pilgrims Hospices cares for thousands of local people each year, free of charge, during the most challenging time in their lives. They offer care and support in people’s own homes, in the community and in their inpatient units as well as running a 24-hour advice line.
11th October 2021
Martyn braves Firewalk and other challenges for local hospice care
Martyn Battrick from Hawkinge near Folkestone experienced Pilgrims Hospices first-hand when his mother, Mary (Madge) Elliott Battrick, was cared for at the Ashford hospice in 2004.
To give back and say thank you, Martyn is a keen fundraiser for Pilgrims; to date, he has raised more than £500 for local hospice care.
Martyn completed the Pilgrims Way Challenge in June 2021, and will brave a barefoot Firewalkacross red-hot coals held in the Ashford hospice gardens on 29 October 2021. He also plans to take on the Three Peaks Challenge for Pilgrims in 2022. His fantastic fundraising will enable the charity to keep providing vital, compassionate care to people across east Kent when they need it the most.
Mary was born in Waterhouses, County Durham on 26 February 1922. During WW2, she was an ambulance and heavy vehicle driver for the Auxiliary Territorial Service (ATS). She met her husband, David, at that time in Hull, Yorkshire, where he was working as a Naval Officer. They married in 1945 and enjoyed a rich and varied life, raising a family and travelling around the world, and living in Plymouth, Devon and Durban, South Africa – where David sadly died on 16 June 1997.
Mary (third from left) with her ATS friends during WW2
On the morning of that day, Martyn took on and successfully completed his biggest challenge to date, the famous Comrades Marathon (a 90km ultramarathon) with an 11 hour cut-off, in his dad’s name.
Martyn said: “If you don’t make it you get nothing; no medal, no ribbon, no certificate – nothing! My time was 10h 44m 01s. I’d seen Dad in hospital the day before and told him I was a little unsure of my ability to do the run (having never run that far before – most was 56km – and I’d never previously failed at anything I had set out to do). We expected Dad to come home from hospital on the Monday, but he died of a myocardial infarct at 04:30 that day, whilst I was walking in the dark to the start of the race. They called me on the PA system but I didn’t hear it.
“Dad’s last words to me as he called me back from leaving when Mum arrived to sit with him were, “Get the medal for me”. I heard of his death at about the 55km mark but resolved to get the medal first and foremost and deal with the sadness later. I got the medal and it was cremated with him.”
Mary and David at home in South Africa (1985)
Mary found it difficult being without her life partner. She returned to England and settled in Folkestone; near to her eldest son, Michael, and her daughter, Barbie (who had also recently returned to England from Durban). David would have been 100 years old on 22 October 2021.
Later in life, after being diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, Mary spent time in Pilgrims Hospice Ashford where she died on 22 March 2004.
Mary with her grandson, David, at the Ashford hospice (March 2004)
Martyn continued: “I was still overseas when Mum went into the hospice, though I had visited her a couple of months before then. After her diagnosis, she moved in with my brother and sister-in-law, Michael and Ros, in Folkestone and remained in their care until she was admitted to Pilgrims.
Mary and David on David’s naval business in Antwerp (c. 1950)
“My eldest son, David, travelled from South Africa to see his grandma in the hospice.
“Michael and Ros visited daily. After Mum had a stroke they and Barbie kept up a 24-hour vigil at her bedside. The medical staff were truly excellent, and could not have been more kind, helpful, and understanding. We were more impressed than we could ever say. Thank you.”
Martyn now enjoys supporting Pilgrims by taking on fundraising challenges for the charity.
He said: “I entered the Pilgrims Way Challenge 2021 with my niece, Samantha (Mum’s granddaughter), and her husband, Steve. We chose the 55km route from Wye to Dover – the 25km and 35km were out of the question for me, I’m an all or nothing man! – and completed it in under 11 hours, including stops. We’ll likely do it again!
“Now we know about the various events Pilgrims offer, we will do more. I’ve already signed up for theFirewalk challenge on 29 October 2021 and plan to tackle the Three Peaks Challenge in mid-2022. We’re supported in our fundraising by family, both here and overseas, and others including staff at Saga in Folkestone, where Samantha works.”
Martyn added: “Pilgrims is a kind and caring organisation, there to comfort and support those who are facing their last days; the benefit of knowing that the best that can be done is in place gives relief and solace to families at a very difficult time.
“As a family, we know from personal experience about Pilgrims’ wonderful work; we fundraise so that this can continue. We also know others who have been supported by the charity, and we have friends who have volunteered for Pilgrims, too. It’s a local charity for the people of Kent – our home.”
Mary with her four children: Martyn from South Africa, Barbie, Robert from North Carolina, USA, and Michael behind (February 2004 )
Pilgrims Events Manager, Robert Grew, explained: “It’s supporters like Martyn and his family that mean Pilgrims can continue being there for the many others that will need our care in the future. By taking on such challenges and raising vital sponsorship, he is enabling others to receive the skilled and compassionate end-of-life care they deserve, just like Mary.
“I’m sure thoughts of his mother will bolster his nerve and spur him across the Firewalk on 29 October. Good luck, Martyn!”
You can keep up with Martyn’s fundraising and sponsor him on his JustGiving page.
Each year Pilgrims Hospices give care and comfort to over 2,500 people in east Kent who are coming to terms with an illness that sadly cannot be cured. The charity support patients to live life as well as possible until the very end, free from pain and distress.
10th May 2021
Nursing at Pilgrims: What it has meant to lead through a pandemic
To celebrate Nurses’ Day 2021, we spoke to Kate White, Head of Nursing at Pilgrims Hospices, about how she and her team have risen to the challenges posed by COVID-19.
Although it has been a difficult year, Pilgrims nurses have continued to provide vital, compassionate and holistic end-of-life care to people across east Kent. The pandemic has also provided opportunities to strengthen nursing practices, which will have a lasting, positive impact on future hospice care.
How have nursing practices and patient care at Pilgrims changed since the COVID-19 pandemic began?
The pandemic has brought infection control and prevention into sharp focus. The care we give at Pilgrims has remained at the highest standard, but having to wear personal protective equipment (PPE) requires us to take more time preparing to give care rather than being able to be spontaneous.
At the start of the pandemic the policies, procedures and systems that we’re so accustomed to were changing rapidly, sometimes several times a day. It was often hard to keep up, but Pilgrims staff embraced what was needed and continued to provide excellent patient-centred care.
Pilgrims nursing team L-R: Kate White, Steve Allwright, Laura Gooch, Sheila Moorhead, Carol Lightfoot, Michelle Swann, Sam Waters and Donna Shanahan
What have been some of the challenges presented by COVID-19 and how have Pilgrims nurses overcome them?
The biggest challenges relate to our everyday communication; talking to patients whilst wearing a mask takes away the personal touch and the non-verbal communication a smile can convey. Our community team had to adapt to talking to patients over the phone rather than face-to-face visiting. This can be very difficult for both patients and staff, especially when discussing sensitive issues; it doesn’t come naturally to everyone, does it?
Nothing will ever replace the closeness of a loved one, but we have tried to offer reassurance and comfort in these very difficult times.
Kate
We also had to find other ways of communicating with relatives, as our visitors policy restricted who could come into the hospices in order to ensure we safeguarded our extremely vulnerable patients and our staff, who were keeping hospice services going. It has been very distressing for so many, but we have used technology to bridge the gap and help enable people to keep in touch.
We’ve also used the Matching Hearts project, where the patient has one crocheted heart and we give the other to the family to try to help them feel connected.
Nothing will ever replace the closeness of a loved one, but we have tried to offer reassurance and comfort in these very difficult times.
Have any positives come out of the pandemic?
As a team we’ve proved our ability to change at a rapid pace when required, to find new and inventive ways of working.
Those of us who have been in healthcare for a long time have never experienced such a coming together of so many providers, and this has had a lasting and positive impact on patient care and service delivery.
Kate
There has also been some brilliant collaborating with our healthcare colleagues in the wider community including East Kent Hospitals University NHS Foundation Trust, Kent Community Trust, Kent County Council and primary care services. We shared issues around capacity, PPE supplies and staffing, plus anything else we were able to help each other with. It also provided a chance to update everyone on our current situation; we called in every day, seven days a week, to ensure our patients had the best care and our staff had the best support. Pilgrims was the only charity to join this call, and from this we became involved in supporting nursing homes by teaching their staff how to use PPE.
Those of us who have been in healthcare for a long time have never experienced such a coming together of so many providers, and this has had a lasting and positive impact on patient care and service delivery.
Kate White, Head of Nursing at Pilgrims Hospices, with nurse Debbie Todd. The artwork is displayed on the ward at the Canterbury hospice. The hands are a show of unity, strength and teamwork. Staff put one hand on the paper on each shift they came in for, choosing the colour that represented how they felt. It reflects the rainbows painted by children during the pandemic to thank key workers.
What does a post-COVID-19 future look like at Pilgrims, and how will Pilgrims nurses lead patient care within it?
We’re told that the pandemic will be around for a while yet, so we will continue to provide the best infection control and prevention we can. Our infection control team, led with the expertise and dedication of nurse Debbie Todd, will ensure we are kept up to date with all current guidelines and practices. I have no doubt we will continue to deliver high quality, holistic care to our patients and their families, whatever the situation is, to the best of our ability.
Each year Pilgrims Hospices give care and comfort to over 2,500 people in east Kent who are coming to terms with an illness that sadly cannot be cured. The charity support patients to live life as well as possible until the very end, free from pain and distress.
